Jada Pinkett Smith Advice On Accepting A Man's Children From A Previous Marriage

A Letter to a Friend:
Blended families are NEVER easy, but here’s why I don’t have a lot of sympathy for your situation because… we CHOOSE them. When I married Will, I knew Trey was part of the package…Period! If I didn’t want that…I needed to marry someone else. Then I learned if I am going to love Trey…I had to learn to love the most important person in the world to him…his mother. And the two of us may not have always LIKED each other........but we have learned to LOVE each other.

I can't support any actions that keep a man from his children of  a previous marriage. These are the situation that separate the women from girls. Your behavior is that of an insecure child who needs to recognize her own weaknesses that MUST be strengthened to take on the task at hand. We can’t say we love our man and then come in between him and his children. THAT’S selfishness…NOT love. WOMAN UP… I’ve been there…I know. My blended family made me a giant… Taught me so much about love, commitment and it has been the biggest ego death to date. It’s time you let your blended family make you the giant you truly are.

The above is a letter Jada Pinkett Smith posted on her facebook page, explaining that she knew Will's ex-wife and her son Trey would be apart of their lives, the movie actress says she doesn't support any woman who tries to keep her man from their children of a previous marriage. Jada knew that she had to accept Will's son 17 years ago when the two of them decided to get married, she also knew that a functional and good relationship had to be built between her and Sheree,Will's ex-wife.