Discussion : What Drives Men?
Men are said to be "simple". And are driven by three factors-
1. Who they are.
2. What they do.
3. How much they make.
When a man accomplishes these three he feels as though he has fulfilled his destiny as a man. If they aren't achieved, the man you're dating, committed to, or married to will be too busy to focus on you. Until a man does these three thing women will only fall into the cracks of their lives, since their not looking to settle down, or making children or building a home with anyone until he has all three of those things in sync. The way you can help him is by helping him focus on his dream, see the vision, and implement the plan. If you can see yourself in the plan, latch on to it tightly otherwise you should ask him some relevant questions to know if this man really has or see a future for you. When reaches his level of success of he has dreamed of- he'll be a better and happier man, therefore you'll be happy too. Remember two people don't fall in love because they sleep in the same bed, its because they share the same dream.
How Do You Know If A Man Really Loves You?
If a man really and truly loves you he will show it. Love is not just a word but also an action. Most importantly he will do the three P's.
1. Profess-a man who loves you would be willing to introduce you to his friends and family, anybody and everybody. He would give you a title "this is my woman", "this is my girl", "my baby's mama". "my lady" instead of him introducing you as "this is NAME" or "this is my friend", if he does that then believe me you are nothing more than what he said.
2. Provide- a man who really loves you wil make sure that all of your neccessities,needs are met. Now this may not mean financially. It could be that your car has broken down, and he offers to fix it or gives you a ride to work until it has been fixed. Even if he can't fix your car he would atleast assit in finding a workshop.
3. Protect- a man who really loves you will protect you from everything he can in his power. From the time a boy begins to learn he is taught to protect his sister, or mom. Its in a man DNA to be protective.
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